• LangdonAlger [any]
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    4 years ago

    I don't feel the instinct to look for reasons to downbear people here like I did on reddit. It's a better place.

      • gayhobbes [he/him]
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        4 years ago

        Well don't worry it's back and people are comparing vaginal and penile circumcision all over again!

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            4 years ago

            Essentially the dudes think that penile circumcision robs men of sexual pleasure on par with vaginal circumcision which literally removes the clitoris. I simply can't deal with that shit.

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                4 years ago

                Oh I know. I have had them try to show me that actually missing your clitoris isn't NEARLY as bad as you think! I wouldn't know, I don't fucking have one, but I SUSPECT IT IS.

                • VolcelPolice [any]
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                  4 years ago

                  Doesn't the clitoris have the same amount of nerve endings as the whole head of the penis? I'm pretty sure the science is on your side here

                  • Owl [he/him]
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                    4 years ago

                    If penile circumcision involved removing the entire head of the penis, I'd be pretty willing to draw a parallel here.

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                    4 years ago

                    I think that even if it didn't it might be insensitive to claim that having your foreskin removed is on par with literally not having a clitoris, in point of fact. Y'know, my earlobes don't have a lot of nerve endings but it would still piss me off to have them cut off, but I'm not going to try to swap war stories with the guy who lost both his legs.

    • WhatAnOddUsername [any]
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      4 years ago

      That is one interesting thing I've found about Chapo. Arguably, when a bunch of people with the same values get together, it should be a polarizing circlejerk. But on the other hand, when we share basically the same values, it allows for more nuance than when we have to worry about right-wingers around. You can "give an inch" without worrying that the other person will take a mile. Also, the disagreements tend to be on the level of how we achieve our goals, as opposed to what those goals are.

    • Owl [he/him]
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      4 years ago

      Hey Chapo put itself back together again with good moral as their main philosophy!

      Actually they have three main philosophies.

      having good morals

      shitposting

      struggle sessions

  • Not_irony [he/him]
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    4 years ago

    Agreed. So cool to be part of a small community that is looking out for each other. o7

  • Equeon [he/him]
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    4 years ago

    True yes, but I wish there were more of us. Not enough followed in the migration.

    • QuillQuote [they/them]
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      4 years ago

      Not enough yet, but they'll find us again. As we keep growing and become noticeable, not to mention as we grow we'll become really viable as reddit alternative and could start catching more left subs as they almost certainly will continue to be pruned

      Every day chapos from the sub find their way home :)

  • Owl [he/him]
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    4 years ago

    Hey Quill's back!

    So that's pretty neat, I would say.

      • Owl [he/him]
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        4 years ago

        7 hours later

        Who are you and what have you done to Quill?

        jk welcome back

        • QuillQuote [they/them]
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          4 years ago

          Yeah sorry, my labor was being exploited shrug

          how've you been comrade? Been a while since I last seen ya

          • Owl [he/him]
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            4 years ago

            Exploited labor? How dare they!

            I'm alright. Juggling a lot of projects right now, always feels like I'm falling behind on the important ones. Still making progress and chipping away at things though.

            • QuillQuote [they/them]
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              4 years ago

              Hey that's great! Proud of you for that, making progress at all when you've got lots of plates spinning can be impossible sometimes, so that's a win for me :)

              They the fun kinds of projects you chose to do that you can talk about? or the shitty kind :C

              • Owl [he/him]
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                4 years ago

                They're all stuff I chose to do. I'm self-employed; I have to make some money on some things, but I can also take some projects that aren't profitable.

                But I maintain multiple identities, so I can't talk about all of them here. The only one so far that I'm linking to this identity is making a new political compass style test that acknowledges lefty politics.

                • QuillQuote [they/them]
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                  4 years ago

                  Oh nice! Wish I could hear more haha

                  also damn that's gotta be frustrating to keep up, I can barely manage the one lmao

  • Gamer_time [he/him]
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    4 years ago

    Everyone here is pretty dang POGGERS ngl ngl, whenever I'm not GAMING I really like browsing this place and reading all the EPIC posts, thanks, folks :)

  • quartz242 [she/her]M
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    4 years ago

    Yea you too! Only place I go an upbear every comment in a thread I don't actually comment into

    • QuillQuote [they/them]
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      4 years ago

      I love how rare it is to run into something I don't upbear let alone feel the need to downbear around here

      Not to say I don't see things I disagree with, just that when I disagree with people here it isn't about whether black people are humans, trans rights are human rights, we should care about other people, etc, it's about niche shit we all know is small potatoes to what goals we do share

      love this place :)