As a reminder, be sure to properly give content warnings and put sensitive subjects behind proper spoiler tags. It's for the mental health of not just your comrades, but yourself as well.
Here is a screenshot of where to find the spoiler button.
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As appealing as that is, giant chats like that are difficult for me, its hard to keep up and isnt threaded
That's understandable. For me, I just try to pick up on whatever the current convo is, or I just start talking about some niche interest I have that no one probably cares about.
Also for me, it's just amazing to be a girl and hang out with other girls. Like, I don't know how I survived so long without being able to experience this.
It's also one of the least functional chat apps I have ever used lol
Yeah, i used to be in some large matrix chats and it just didnt work.
Small wonder why it hasn't usurped Discord...
I mean, when i was using discord it also just didnt work... Its just the format of a chat is suited to, well, chatting between a few people, and not much else (imo).