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  • Ho_Chi_Chungus [she/her]
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    5 months ago

    oh my god

    i was on a discord call with like 2 queer friends last night. Girl name, she/her pronouns. I had earlier used that one nicer shampoo/conditioner that I've been leaving around my shower for god knows how long so this time my hair looked really good? Mid length, "masculine" cut but something about the way my headphones acted as a headband almost made my hair look really nice? My friend even noticed and commented on how she loved my hair

    I spent like half an hour just kind of zoning out of the call looking at myself on the screen and for the first time I actually... felt nice. Like, I actually liked what I saw, I was visibly happy with myself. I ended up taking 5 selfies on that call and for the first time in my life I did that because I actually wanted to

    still cis tho

    • Jenniferrr [she/her, comrade/them]
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      5 months ago

      Video calls can smooth things out and really make us look fem and pretty right? Blows my mind sometimes haha I should take more pictures

      • Ho_Chi_Chungus [she/her]
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        5 months ago

        yeah, I actually ended up taking more photos of my computer screen than myself because that's where i looked nicer. big shoutout to discord for putting up the femme filter for me apparently

      • lapis [fae/faer, comrade/them]
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        5 months ago

        this is so real! I often see myself in work slack calls (where I'm boymoding), and am confused as to why that has to be where I look the most fem.

        • Jenniferrr [she/her, comrade/them]
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          5 months ago

          I am still boymoding too and honestly I'm just here to gaslight people who think they are noticing changes lmao. I see people give me the extra long stare at work when talking to me and the little question mark pop up over their head 😂