• Dirt_Owl [comrade/them, they/them]
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    1 year ago

    Told you guys they're just going to make up excuses to hate us. Unsuprising that anti-communists would use NATO-like tactics

    • thelastaxolotl [he/him]
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      1 year ago

      They also posted a nato flag with the words "gay right are non-negotiable" unironically, bunch of vaushites

          • iridaniotter [she/her]
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            1 year ago

            lol originally I had the spacing between "queer" and "rights" as well as "are non-" and "negotiable" not be as big, but it was hard to read when they were on the white stripe. Alas. sadness

          • sharedburdens [she/her, comrade/them]
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            1 year ago

            Under the Allied occupation, some homosexuals were forced to serve out their terms of imprisonment regardless of time served in the concentration camps. The Nazi version of Paragraph 175 remained on the books of the Federal Republic of Germany (West Germany) until the law was revised in 1969 to decriminalize homosexual relations between men over the age of 21.

            The allies marched gay people right back into the camps they liberated. LGBT people have been getting shit on for a long time, it's disingenuous to act like it's somehow specific to communists

          • aaaaaaadjsf [he/him, comrade/them]
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            1 year ago

            That's a GDR flag (also known as East Germany), at the time the GDR had some of the best LGBT rights in the region.

            What does Stalin have to do with that? Not every communist symbol is Soviet. Please actually bother to do some basic research before responding.

            • Frank [he/him, he/him]
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              1 year ago

              I love that the lore for the GDR's state funding of gay culture was a bunch of Stasi dorks sitting around a table going "gay people are a huge security risk because if NATO discovers them they could be blackmailed with the threat of being outed." And then someone is like "well what if we just normalized homosexuality and funded gay culture, periodicals, clubs, discos, and made it safe and encouraged for them to be out in society?" And all the stasi people are like "brialliant!" Coming to the right conclusion in the most bizarre way.

              Makes me think about how easy it was to turn US spies and intelligence agents because they always had housing or medical or gambling debt so the soviets could just offer them cash to cover the problems their salaries didn't.

            • 𝔹𝕚𝕫𝕫𝕝𝕖@midwest.social
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              1 year ago

              Cuba is actually cool, I've thought that for a long time. Of all the Communists I think Castro did it best, and he made life measurably better for Cubans. I cannot say the same about the Soviet Union or the PRC.

              • autismdragon [he/him, they/them]
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                1 year ago

                I'm glad you're supportive of Cuba. Thats a good step in the right direction. But I can't agree with you about the USSR or PRC because while they both made humongous missteps quality of life on average measurably improved for citizens of both countries, and there are many statistics that show that. I'm more critical of both countries than most people here (I won't even BEGIN to defend population transfers in the USSR) but I would still definitely argue against the idea that those countries didnt make "life measurably better" for the majority of their citizens compared to what came before those country's respective revolutions.

          • HornyOnMain
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            1 year ago

            If we're going to talk about random other socialist countries, Cuba has covered all costs of medical transition under their nationalised health service since 2008

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        • AcidSmiley [she/her]
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          1 year ago

          NATO recently refused Mette Fredriksen as their new president particularly because she had done too much for LGBT rights when she was prime minister of Denmark.

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        • AcidSmiley [she/her]
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          1 year ago

          idk what country flag-trans-pride is, but they should join because all the people from there are extremely pretty and i've heard a lot of them say about themselves that they are very gay.

      • Zuzak [fae/faer, she/her]
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        1 year ago

        Another blahaj user called it out and the user deleted it and apologized.

        Edit: I was thinking of a different post, but this was removed.

          • Zuzak [fae/faer, she/her]
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            1 year ago

            Here

            My last post was a post equating NATO with gay rights with the caption "fuck tankies". That is not the case. I simply found a screenshot on discord and posted it because I was unreasonably angry at hexbear due to the brigading of the discussion thread. Hexbear does have some nice people among their very politically charged communities. Have a picture of sleeping ducks instead.

            It was bait but they thought better of it.

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    • kristina [she/her]
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      1 year ago

      for the record this user has 130 comments in their community and has yet to be banned. letting 196 on a trans instance was a mistake, it would have been better to grab people from /r/traaa or tgcj

      if anyone said anything extremely transphobic like this here theyd be banned instantly, longevity of the account or no

    • take_five_seconds [he/him, any]
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      1 year ago

      absolutely 100% what i've witnessed lurking on all the big active threads lately. people deliberately misconstruing what we're saying, outright LYING about shit (like they were downvoted/called some slur that is on our filters), and just bullshit concern trolling about shit liek BriGaDiNG (you mean using the fucking website? lmao) allll that shit annoys me.

      • citrussy_capybara [ze/hir]
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        1 year ago

        Saw one going off about how hexbear is shitting up lemmy.world - the site that famously pre-emptively defederated. And the mentioned claims of downvoting/slur use that are technically impossible. They really will make anything up nothing to stand on.

    • FuckYourselfEndless [ze/hir]
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      1 year ago

      No, we must appease them further. We must debase ourselves. We must constrict ourselves. We must put on the armour that Giovanni made for Mewtwo to constrict our powers and serve them. We exist to serve liberals their tepid, stale-ass ideology and memes on a webforum run by ostensible communists.

  • Melonius [he/him]
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    1 year ago

    It's really strange, I thought the alt right playbook vids were being overdramatic with the Nazi bar syndrome. I can't tell if the concern trollers are unintentionally libbing out or just fascists doing their job to prevent any sort of left unity. Same thing maybe.

    I don't want to insult anyone by calling them a bot or a bad actor, but I feel more safe posting here than over in their supposedly "less troll" instance.

    Show

    I think that response is weird. Feels like a nice pat on the back, "you see someone who's a friend and is saying stuff that is good, but they're bad, and you should cut them off. Also that's a good sign that you have so many friends?" And an NPR podcast? Like it feels so on the nose I'm doubting reality

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    • Awoo [she/her]
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      1 year ago

      it's supposedly a sign that your minitory group has truly taken hold in society

      Huge "I think the trans people have all the rights they need and are more than equal" vibes. 3 comments ever. Is funding the ko fi donations though, so maybe just a very poorly worded thing to say? I don't think a right wing op would be donating to a pro trans blahaj lemmy instance as cover.

      • Melonius [he/him]
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        1 year ago

        Yeah it might be more simple than that. The horrible thing about propaganda is you don't need to have ill intent or even understand it, you just need to repeat it and the damage is done.

        • AcidSmiley [she/her]
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          1 year ago

          idk about that, i've met a lot of trans people living stealth and not one of them was really happy with that, it's something you do out of self preservation instinct or because you think you missed the chance to come out and now it would be weird or w/e and all of them worry about being clocked way too much and have that nagging feeling that they always have to act. What makes me happiest about having come out is particularly that i do not have to do that anymore, that i can be authentic and true to myself and i couldn't do that if i would have to fake being a cis girl every time i clock in at work.

          Yeah, i get it, good passing is practical and the less you suffer from your reflection the better, i can relate to that even though i'm nowhere near "finished" - but here's the thing, i don't see anybody besides baby trans worry as much about this stuff as people who pass perfectly and are conventionally attractive as hell. And it's not just - or at least not only - fishing for compliments, being a highly assimilated trans person correlates really fucking strongly with a lack of self acceptance in my experience. And i also see a very strong correlation between being a happy trans person and not giving a flying fuck about cisnormativity.

          The kind of lifestyle you're describing is a trap. And i don't mean "being done with medically transitioning and financially secure", i know a ton of trans people who fall into that category and aren't of the opinion that the cistem works for them, because it never works for us, even if we pass perfectly and have the right papers we still have to live in a society full of transphobes. And when they don't know we're around, they do not hold that back, either. I know way too many stories about experiences like that from trans people with good passing, especially when it comes to dating (that is not helped by putting "btw i'm trans" in your dating profile, all awful men seem to universally share the trait of never reading these). And if that's not enough, you just have to look at any queer news source out there if you want to feel trampled upon. It's inescapable how we as a group are treated even if oneself is very safe from that.

          The people who are like you describe have not arrived at their position for material reasons, as there is no actual material safety for trans people in our society. This isn't like being gay where being rich and white enough means you don't have to worry. This is "being rich means that i can make realistic plans to leave my home country and everyone i love if they come for us" material safety we're talking about here. Yes, that's a form of privilege, but in itself all these privileges, passing privilege, paperwork privilege, medical privilege, being able to bug out privilege are not enough to become the kind of person you're describing. One of your examples had to flee across half the world from a targeted harassment campaign. You see awful takes from trans people who still boymode after years of HRT and think they can never come out without getting FFS first, you see good takes from trans people who can live off their patreon money and are working on their mainstream media career, and the latter doesn't surprise me at all because even these people constantly get reminded where they're coming from.

          The reason some trans people become awful pick mes is not exclusively, but largely false consciousness.

            • AcidSmiley [she/her]
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              1 year ago

              All of this is absolutely correct, trans people are at a massively increased risk of unemployment and homelesness, even in systems with comparably good healthcare being wealthy makes the difference between being gatekept and transitioning freely (and in most countries, for many people wealth is basically required for perfect passing because most places do not cover stuff like FFS even if they have public healthcare for HRT and bottom surgery) and all of these are factors that radicalize people and play a huge part of why so many trans people are anarchists or communists. They're not the only factors, seeing that liberal democracy doesn't give a shit about me would've definitely radicalized me as well if i wouldn't have already been ML when coming out, but the combination of being trans and poor is pure revolutionary sentiment fuel, i can attest to that. I burn hot on most days.

        • DamarcusArt@lemmygrad.ml
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          1 year ago

          Capitalist class interests will always override all others. It's like...reverse intersectionality, where being bourgeoisie or petit bourgeoisie consumes all other aspects of a person.

    • kristina [she/her]
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      pretty bizarre, i feel like im speaking a different language sometimes.

      • silent_water [she/her]
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        1 year ago

        we are. we don't agree on the meanings of basic words. like reactionary. and fascist.

        • Frank [he/him, he/him]
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          1 year ago

          100% this. We're operating in fundamentally different and irreconciliable realities. We cannot both be right.i doubt most of them understand why we keep talking about history and theory and precedent, or trying to pull out citations and documents. That's not how their world works.

    • yoink [she/her]
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      1 year ago

      being so treat brained I can only think of other people in terms of treats and treat-standins

    • Frank [he/him, he/him]
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      God we're not even trolls. We're not trying to provoke people so we can laugh at them. That's not what dunking is. Dunking is absolutely sincerely telling people what shitheads they are. The idea that most of us are 100% sincere and we absolutely do believe the libs believe what they say and we absolutely do care about their beliefs, take their beliefs seriously, and accord their beliefs exactly as much respect as they deserve is beyond them.

      And ugh, fucking npr. I stopped listening years ago bc it was always "marketplace money". Fuck npr, and the bill and melinda gates foundation.

      • DamarcusArt@lemmygrad.ml
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        1 year ago

        The weirdest part about the whole "trolling to dunk" thing is they are the ones who come onto communist instances or attack communists on their own instances and make fools of themselves without any prompting.

        Though that's probably why they're so mad. The mere existence of communism is enough to have these libs go mask off and reveal their true colours, and they don't like it.

  • silent_water [she/her]
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    1 year ago

    mods, if we're going to make concessions to the other instances around our posting, they need to ban this kind of transphobic bullshit. that this user wasn't banned is deeply offensive and rage inducing. how can they call themselves a queer instance and allow this kind of shit to stand? removing the comment is fine and all but it allows the user to continue posting this drivel at us whenever we post.

      • GarbageShoot [he/him]
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        1 year ago

        This is a tangent, but have you talked with our friends over there about how 196 is extremely hostile to our existence and what is to be done about that? It seems like a sticking point.

          • GarbageShoot [he/him]
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            1 year ago

            What was there to make fun of? "LOL this tankie is trying to address problems diplomatically"

            • Frank [he/him, he/him]
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              1 year ago

              They're doing internet edgelord shit. Kindness and diplomacy are evidence of weakness. They've already decided we're ontologically evil, and anything we do regardless of what it is proves that. Unfalsifiable orthodoxy. parenti

                • Parenti Bot@lemmygrad.mlB
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                  1 year ago
                  The quote

                  In the United States, for over a hundred years, the ruling interests tirelessly propagated anticommunism among the populace, until it became more like a religious orthodoxy than a political analysis. During the Cold War, the anticommunist ideological framework could transform any data about existing communist societies into hostile evidence. If the Soviets refused to negotiate a point, they were intransigent and belligerent; if they appeared willing to make concessions, this was but a skillful ploy to put us off our guard. By opposing arms limitations, they would have demonstrated their aggressive intent; but when in fact they supported most armament treaties, it was because they were mendacious and manipulative. If the churches in the USSR were empty, this demonstrated that religion was suppressed; but if the churches were full, this meant the people were rejecting the regime’s atheistic ideology. If the workers went on strike (as happened on infrequent occasions), this was evidence of their alienation from the collectivist system; if they didn’t go on strike, this was because they were intimidated and lacked freedom. A scarcity of consumer goods demonstrated the failure of the economic system; an improvement in consumer supplies meant only that the leaders were attempting to placate a restive population and so maintain a firmer hold over them. If communists in the United States played an important role struggling for the rights of workers, the poor, African-Americans, women, and others, this was only their guileful way of gathering support among disfranchised groups and gaining power for themselves. How one gained power by fighting for the rights of powerless groups was never explained. What we are dealing with is a nonfalsifiable orthodoxy, so assiduously marketed by the ruling interests that it affected people across the entire political spectrum.

                  -- Michael Parenti, Blackshirts And Reds

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              • Fuckass
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          • beef_curds [she/her]
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            1 year ago

            Can we have our own defed vote, which ends 2 days before theirs?

            My argument: I think it'd be funny.

              • silent_water [she/her]
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                1 year ago

                if there's no willingness or ability to address mods who post harmful content towards trans and disabled comrades, I'll do it.

            • meth_dragon [none/use name]
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              1 year ago

              imo we should find some way to forcibly federate and burn down 196

              they send one of ours to the hospital, we send one of theirs to the morgue

          • CriticalOtaku [he/him]
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            1 year ago

            You shouldn't have had to take that deeper-sadness

            Especially since you were working so hard on putting out fires before they started

          • AssortedBiscuits [they/them]
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            1 year ago

            she said she didn't feel comfortable doing that and said I could.

            wtf. She's the fucking admin. Does the mod have a gun pointed to her head or something? This is completely ridiculous. "I have admin rights, but I can't do anything to a subordinate who I personally appointed." Don't gimme that shit.

            You've been had. She's just the good cop in the good cop, bad cop routine.

            • charlie
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              1 year ago

              It really does seem like she’s laying the groundwork to defed from Hexbear next week.

          • SootyChimney [any]
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            That whole thread is the first thing that makes me think we should actually defederate with them. The amount of bad faith is untrue, and allowing such an unprofessional mod is untrue.

            Even after Ada made the request not to leak DMs, the response was just some awful bad-faith scribbling over it with a pencil and still keeping it public. Absolutely awful. Props to you for reaching out and trying to have a discussion meow-hug

        • kristina [she/her]
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          i mentioned it, seemed to get brushed off, could mention it again to stick it home later

  • Duży Szef [he/him]@lemmygrad.ml
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    1 year ago

    Reminds me of my aunt who lied straight to my face in front of my family members that I outright supported the war in Ukraine. Guess analysis, predicting consequences and advocating for ending the war as soon as possible is now wishing desth for Ukrainians 🙄

    Yet she was the one talking racist shit about Ukrainians and saying "they should go back", calling them lazy and other shit I'd rathet not repeat. I even mentioned that probably ¼ of all Ukrainians my age (20) are fucking dead, I couldn't believe she was actively supporting them going to their deaths. That fell on deaf ears.

    The point is, that no matter what, and who. Liberals will always stab you in the back.

    They like racism, discrimination and being pieces of shit in general. The only thing they will cry about is @Civility@hexbear.net being threatened.

    She was snarky, making faces and belittling me yet it was I who was the problem for having an aggresive tone in an answer to a snarky and purposefuly provocative statement. My god if I said "kurwa mać", it would be the end of the world! But racism is permitted as long as you are nice about it. 🥰

    I should've actually berated my mother for her shitty behavior, I'm mad I actually wasn't more confronting about her racism and not just acceptance, but the defence of this shit.

    All in all, fuck liberals as they will fuck you over. Always. It sucks having to restrain myself over this bullshit, and not "making a scene".

  • CyborgMarx [any, any]
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    1 year ago

    lmao I really love how these rancid motherfuckers just make shit up

    Like do they realize we can see their posts? Why lie, just own your anti-communism

    Honestly I'd rather be called a slur than deal with this sanctimonious horseshit

    it doesn't come down to Trans solidarity, but what this community believes on a moral level

    yuck, love having white nationalist pedophiles talking about "morality"

  • Awoo [she/her]
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    1 year ago

    No it doesn't. Lmao.

    You're just showing how completely unfamiliar with anything to your left you are.

      • Awoo [she/her]
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        "It gives off a massive Conservative pretending to be trans vibe / as a black man."

        Saying this gives off a massive "I have never seen criticism of liberals from anyone other than conservatives" vibe. This is clearly their first ever encounter with real leftists. They default to "these people are conservatives" whenever they see anyone say anything negative about liberals and this only occurs when you've literally never actually spoken to a single real socialist before.

        You're fair asking, I wasn't very clear.

    • citrussy_capybara [ze/hir]
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      1 year ago

      This is gonna bring out a lot of false positives with how common imposter syndrome affects the trans community. It’s me, I’m the fake trans. transshork-sad

        • Frank [he/him, he/him]
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          1 year ago

          The nice thing about a hegemonic culture that pervades your whole observable world is you really can blame it for nearly everything.

      • beef_curds [she/her]
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        It makes me sad a bit, because it sort of indicates a lack of connection to local community. I don't think you can navigate irl queer community without running into some queer commie who doesn't care about tone, or some enby chaos gremlin who likes to have fun.

        It may not be your vibe, but if you can't even contextualize what's happening here, it's a bit of a tell.

      • AcidSmiley [she/her]
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        1 year ago

        I've seen one of these clowns get called out for that exact kind opf transphobia and he admitted he had never talked to a trans person IRL. Remember that r/196 has always had a massive chaser problem because it's full of V*ush fans.

        • sharedburdens [she/her, comrade/them]
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          1 year ago

          It's also chauvinism, applying a political litmus test to declare who is trans- as if they have a monopoly on it or something.

          The chaser stuff really bothers me too, I try to give people the benefit of the doubt when it comes to being horny, but when you're doing shit like that in what are supposed to be trans spaces? and acting like you get to say what politics are allowed? just sends me into a rage

          abbysmuscles said it best here for anyone scrolling https://hexbear.net/comment/3763733

          • AcidSmiley [she/her]
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            1 year ago

            I'm generally careful with the term, i get that not everybody dating trans people is a chaser, i have cis masc friends who've been in relationships with trans girls, i cherish all relationships where i see my sisters thrive, i'm t4t myself, but as soon as something that may be fetishization and something that is obvious transphobia intersects, the case is crystal clear.

    • Frank [he/him, he/him]
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      1 year ago

      It's me. I pretended to be trains. I don't even need to run on tracks i can go cross country. : (

      train-shining

    • DefinitelyNotAPhone [he/him]
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      1 year ago

      If there's one thing that conservatives and trolls enjoy doing, it's creating an account on a niche forum to...

      checks notes

      ...pretend to be trans so you can chill out among other fake trans users and be supportive of them, even though they're faking it?

      • NPa [he/him]
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        1 year ago

        It's like transvestigation, but in reverse. Cis-picions? Straight-jacketing?

  • take_five_seconds [he/him, any]
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    1 year ago

    there were hexbears in the closet and they were being secretly transphobic and one of the transphobic jokes looked at me

    also nice buttigieg word salad at the end

    • KurtVonnegut [comrade/them]
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      1 year ago

      also nice buttigieg word salad at the end

      "If you believe in what is right, then it is right to believe in your beliefs. Our struggle is fundamentally about solidarity, trans rights, freedom, and above all, peace. Therefore, we should nuke Beijing, Pyongyang, Caracas, and Havana, nuke them to ashes." - average anti-AES liberal

  • abc [he/him, comrade/them]
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    1 year ago

    I read this in Mewtwo's voice from The Pokemon Movie and it is the perfect smuglord kind of shit he would say lmao

    Pokemon The Movie 2023: Mewtwo Makes Shit Up

  • mar_k [he/him]
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    1 year ago

    how people should act, and how we believe people should be treated at a fundamental level

    Hexbears are violating my human dignity by calling me a liberal frothingfash

    • Whiskey Pickle@lemmy.ml
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      1 year ago

      sorry you need some psychopathic conspiracy theory to justify your existence. but people just hate you

      Show

  • yoink [she/her]
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    1 year ago

    was literally coming here to post this, beat me to the punch

    square peg through a circle hole ass logic

    they're like me but they don't buy into the same lib shit I do, therefore they must be faking it enmasse! world view secure sicko-wholesome

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    • Frank [he/him, he/him]
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      1 year ago

      I can absolutely believe this isn't a fed or an op, just a smug asshole with terminal cerebral mccarthyism. It's such a mindless, foolish thing to say.

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    • 420blazeit69 [he/him]
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      1 year ago

      I'm not saying it is that to be clear, it just reads like a goddamn fed

      "If you're not a cop, you're doing a cop's job" applies. Wrecking (and similar conduct) is bad no matter who it's from.

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        • 420blazeit69 [he/him]
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          1 year ago

          Correct. My view is it's not productive or necessary to get into who is or isn't a cop, because at the end of the day it's unknowable. Wrecking/other disruptive conduct is the problem, so I tend to focus on that.

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            • AssortedBiscuits [they/them]
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              1 year ago

              Everything that I've seen from that instance is duplicitous two-faced behavior. I think some people here are still caught up with federation hype. Carving a space for trans people on Lemmy doesn't need to look like a federation of trans instances. It could also look like one giant instance where transphobes, terfs, enbyphobes, chasers, and other reactionaries get sent to the blender and any instance that dares to traffic transphobia receives a warm visit from the All Active Army.

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    • GarbageShoot [he/him]
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      1 year ago

      Hey, they could be a fed and still actually trans. The CIA is very progressive about who it hires as Gestapo agents.

      But really I think they are a youngish trans liberal in denial.

    • Melonius [he/him]
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      1 year ago

      Some of them are. It's difficult to tell if they're using bad arguments in good faith or bad faith, but it is so obviously transparent they have a fedposting problem when you engage with the user and they resort to insults or act like they're being attacked

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        • Frank [he/him, he/him]
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          1 year ago

          That kind of pig headed, stupid, aggressive ignorance has been very frustrating during this whole experiment with federation.

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